[B]I'm not looking for a wife! I just want an FWB.[/B] I'm happy with my life and my family status. I'm not looking for a life-partner, just somebody to satisfy my "darker side". I'm interested in the alternate lifestyle, but my wife is not, so I came here. I am a strong (x-swimmer), dominant male. I'm 6'2", 230 lbs. (could stand to shed a few). I'm well travelled and educated with a higher-than average IQ. I like theatre, movies, the outdoors, solving puzzles and kinky sex. I have enjoyed BDSM since high-school, but have been off that scene since I met my wife. To the vanilla crowd, I'm a high-tech professional with a family and a dog. But, what they don't understand is my need for the mental and physical stimulation that can only be satisfied by the D/s relationship. I'm looking for ladies or couples with a sub wife. I'm not into the heavy pain, but more the mental aspect of D/s and role-playng. Ladies who are into anal and spanking are always a plus. All limits are respected. .

My Ideal Person Discretion. Submissive personality. Willingness to explore and learn together with me. Looking for someone local for some real-time play. Somebody who desires a no-strings-attached D/s relationship, role-playing or just kinky sex.

No 24/7, please.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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