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philandover 61 / 57 / C
"Life Should Be Lived To The Fullest"
Bellevue, Washington, United States
 
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philandover 61/C
Bellevue, Washington
...life is too short to not enjoy great sex and explore our sexual urges and fantasies....
Introduction
AFF draws attention from a wide variety of people seeking diverse connections, interests and experiences... I strongly believe that there is something/someone out there for everyone.... many do not wish to interact with single males....I get and respect that - if this is you, you probably don't want to waste your time reading any further.... If however, you ARE reading this: ... by way of introduction, I am a married, white male – 56 yrs. old. I am an educator and am myself well educated and a lifelong learner….Although absolutely delighted with my life, career, position in the universe, I am seeking more sexual adventure… I have been with my partner for well over 40 years – together we have, by all measures, built a very successful life - Lovely home, successful adult , financially stable, a world traveler and wholly at peace with who I am…. what the two of us have realized is that while we have built a life together that is comfortable and stable, we are very different people and that our emotional and physical desires/needs are not the same…. we are growing in different directions... I would best describe our relationship as a very successful business partnership - an analogy we have both used..... Sexually my wife is happy to schedule a weekly appointment for a quick sexual encounter - a routine that is as predictable and as short as possible - we don't fight about this, it is I would say, not unpleasant but clinical and very predictable - once we have both orgasmed it is clearly over - my wife gets up, dons pajamas, pulls out the latest issue of Cooking Light magazine and checks out - when I suggest we vary this routine the response is, "....this is who I am - you clearly want something a bit more exciting - you should go find those experiences that you seem to desire...." I believe what I am most interested in finding is a like-minded friend with benefits – a woman who is comfortable with herself, her life, her sexuality.... I would also love to join a F/M couple - a couple seeking another male to join them and focus wholly on pleasuring the woman - M/M contact during such an encounter is interesting to me as well.... I identify as straight but am not adverse to joining a couple or a group of like-minded women and men….. SO, here I am…wondering if by chance there is someone out there who has arrived at a similar point in their life – not yet ready to give up on exploring their sexual nature and who is willing to take a chance on finding new and mutually satisfying sexual experiences…. I can assure you I am exactly as I have presented myself above – if this describes you or your partner's situation and position in life, and you might be interested in exploring similar experiences, please do not hesitate to reach out to me…. this begins with good conversation and a getting to know one another....we can see where it might got from there...

My Ideal Person A confident, sexually adventurous female - one who desires a sexual "...adventure partner...."

This could also be a sexually adventurous couple, F/M, who are seeking a second male to jointly pleasure the female.... Bi-curious couples too....
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I want to meet people who are interested in no strings attached, no drama contaminated, intellectually compatible sex...

Is there a woman out there like this....? I hope so - I am patient and genuine - I truly believe that I am not alone in my quest...

Life is to be lived to the fullest - I believe that if we do not at least make an attempt to have those experiences we have wished and/or fantasized about, we will forever regret not having them.... the clock is ticking friends - tomorrow may be too late ....

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sharing a partner with several men - watching as she is ravaged
sexually (in a good way) - penetrating a semen filled vagina
after several men have ejaculated into my lover... <br><br>
Another frequent fantasy is seeing a woman bathing in a
bathtub of semen - filled by a couple thousand willing contributors
- she lazily soaks in this ooze while pleasuring herself
slowly...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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Information
  • 61/57 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Bellevue, Washington, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Straight
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English, French, Spanish
Our Trophy Case:
 
His
Her
Birthdate: June 11, 1962 January 3, 1967
Relocate?: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Height: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Body Type: Average Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker Prefer not to say
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker Prefer not to say
Drugs: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Education: Master's degree Prefer not to say
Occupation: Educator Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A