ok, am no longer a gold member, but am still on the site. if you want to get in touch with me then use my blog! :) Firstly the basics: 1) I have taken the time to fill out my profile...so I expect you to too. 2) I have a pic on my profile, you should too...don't expect me to send you a pic just because you have a pair of breasts! 3) I know I can be a little lazy in my written text, but seriously text speak??? Do you really need to conserve characters on an email??? So, who am I? This is a tricky question to answer as I観 not always entirely sure who I am from one moment to the next. In fact, all I'm certain of is that I'm not quite the same per as I was when I first joined AFF. To keep things simple: How I think of myself: * Logical * Funny * Honest How my friends think of me: * Outgoing * Dedicated * Workaholic How I really am: * Loyal * Trustworthy * Funloving My social views are Liberal, my politics are centrist, and my approach to English spelling and grammar is quite liberal - with the exception of text speak! X( About me: I love music and going out for a dance. In particular, loving D&B, electropop, and...well anything with a beat that lets me move my feet. I play the guitar and drums, so any kinda guitar music is always a good shout too! I rarely drink anymore, more outta choice than anything else...generally I'm the driver and I don't drink and drive. Also I find the nights are much more fun with that extra clarity! That being said, I used to be a bar manager, and enjoy a nice glass of something now an then! ;) I like to cook...my cullinary heroes are Gordon Ramsey, Nobuyuki "Nobu" Matsuhisa, and Rick Stein, and I like Japanese, Italian, Indian and Fusion (of all of the above)food. I generally eat anything, except Snails and certain types of soya curd...YUK! I am extremley confident in what I do...this is not borne out of arrogance, although that is what some might think, but due to the fact I have worked so hard and long to be good at what I do. Why am I on here? Contray to the popular rea, I am not on here to see how many women I can get into bed...I don't feel the need to quantify my exploits to people. I am on here for new experiances, meeting new people, and having fun...if that is not your rea for being on here, then don't contact me. If you want to meet me then you need to first get my attention and then excite my mind...please note this is not as easy as it seems. I am not after rampart intelectuals, but just people that can hold a conversation, know how to have fun, and are honest with themselves as well as others. Who am I looking for: Free thinking People who enjoy adult company, and are after new experiances I'm a sucker for accents, love the scouse, irish, scottish, welsh and north eastern accents! Also if you are Oriental/asian (korean, japanese, chinese etc) you will definately get my undivided attention. Also have a thing for female body builders, so if you look like Isabelle Turell, Melissa Detiwiller, Denise Masino, Jodi Miller etc, then feel free to contact me ;) That being said, I'm non discriminatory in this respect...as long as you got the right bits, I'm generally ok with the rest! What I am not looking for: People who are not honest with themselves let alone others: eg: body type: atheletic when really your a big girl...(I have no problem with big girls, those that know how to work it can be quite sexy) Those that are intolerent to others: Unless your after a full on relationship, what difference does it make? As long as you click mentally, what difference does age or race make if you meet...? Life is all about experianceing new things after all...

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
damien rice, daft punk, metalica, all american rejects,
the corrs, stevie wonder, any mowtown, jay-z

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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