Hello, my name is Debbi, I'm a recent post-op transsexual woman looking for a gentleman that appreciates an intriguing, intelligent and skillful lover. I've had an amazing life that's taken me from being a noted erotic photographer to high tech executive to health care business owner. Who knows what’s next? I'm a skilled lover and knowledgeable in the dark arts of BDSM. I’m an aviatrix and I love to navigate the sky for weekend runaways to exciting destinations. I love sharing a glass of wine and talking about what's next. I'm very feminine and a bit submissive. I adore romantic dinners in unique restaurants. But, most of all, I love a night of passion that lasts till dawn. So, let me know, maybe we can share a glass of wine and talk of what's next.

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: A man who enjoys being a man and takes full pleasure from his woman. Also, you must be the kind of person that I can be comfortable around. I'm not looking for one night stands. I believe passion and intensity are built on trust and experience. The more you do it the better it gets. Married men that are looking for stealth hookups need not apply.

I always prefer first meeting to be in public places such as a nice restaurant or bar. So, although I'm quite passable, day or night, If you are concerned or uncomfortable about possibly being seen with a "tranny" we're probably are not a good fit.

I enjoy the company and friendship of other trans women but I'm not really sexually attracted.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have a beautiful woman, totally nude except for 5"
stiletto heels. She is dangling, arms straight over her
head in my ropes. She can't get away and I have so many
evil things that I plan to do with her...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Spanking, floging, whips, being in bondage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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