Blonde wife looking for something discreet on the side...hubby doesn't know. Have a good relationship but I am at that time in life when I just need some more excitement. Great sex with no strings or involvement other than...great sex! Finding out a few things about myself since being on AFF. I am a little bit submissive; and also love to be taken out and shown off. Also, and this might be bad, part of the "turn on" for me is that fact that I am doing this behind hubby's back, cheating on him and he does not know. I feel kind of guilty about that, but, that's how it is.