Been married for many years and all happy. However about 12 years ago, my wife began going through menopause . It was about the worst possible, her level of discomfort was so high, there was virtually no sexual contact, aside from the rare attempts, but her description was ,it felt like sandpaper. So intimacy is not anything we engage in. A couple years ago she said, you have needs,i understand, do what you need to do, just never rub it in my face, and I don't want to know. So she will not be the scorned wife,and I would not try to pry away your spouse, or change your life. I'm seeking mutual sexual pleasure between others who's goal is the same. Make eachother feel amazing.

My Ideal Person People who's belief ,that sexual pleasure is no pressure, fun and limitless. I am located in the near west suburb of Chicago.