Photos about what?  

aflower2c 44F  
4400 posts
10/30/2018 1:57 pm
Photos about what?

So I've finally decided to get those photos done, sometime in the next couple of weeks.
But not really sure what kind of shots to take.
Definitely no face pics, so don't even mention it.

But what kind of photos do you like to see on a womans profile when shes over 35?
Anything in particular that catches your eye besides 'beautiful hot chick' , surely you must look at profiles that are not just the under 30. Lol
Besides the blog section, where its more about blogs than pics.

The photographer would like to take explicit ones but of course because he's a dude. But in my experience those have never helped me find partners.

So what kind of non face focus photos do you like?

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

aflower2c 44F  
12108 posts
10/30/2018 1:59 pm

He liked this one obviously... but it never netted me any men. Lol

I will be doing kink ones with my corset on.... but what else?

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

Wonder167 51F  
714 posts
10/30/2018 2:08 pm

Do what makes you comfortable and what you feel sexy doing. Good Luck!

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 2:12 pm:
I havent felt sexy in years, so thats a problem there...because I dont know what it feels like.

whatfun39 40M
25 posts
10/30/2018 2:17 pm

You in your natural surroundings clothed or not is up to you. The profile picture is just a picture. Whether or not you like what you see doesn’t mean you are Giotto like what you get. Have taking pictures.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:49 pm:
I tend to only like 1 out 30 shots. Lol

Wonder167 51F  
714 posts
10/30/2018 2:17 pm

I love your profile pic. I think it's gorgeous!

2018easyrider 70M
90 posts
10/30/2018 2:20 pm

mmmmmmmmmm my favorite toooooooooo.

sexynewf61 56M  
2824 posts
10/30/2018 2:20 pm

This is my opinion. I think so nice photo's of you in sexy clothing with lingerie. Take pics as you are removing the outer layers to get to the lingerie. That always excites me.

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Nhredgo7869 39M
1 post
10/30/2018 2:21 pm

I agree with some of the other comments. Pose how you feel sexy!

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:48 pm:
How do you 'feel sexy' when you haven't felt desired in years.

wantaplay8 65M
4686 posts
10/30/2018 2:49 pm

If you use a computer to place your photos here you can always edit/crop the face off the photo...all of the photos I place here have had that function done to the photo. Maybe photos of you in places you like to visit,,nothing defining in the photo though. some in lingerie, parts of your body you like to tease with. Maybe photos of you doing items you like but nothing in the photo showing that people can recognize where the photo was taken. Maybe a photo of you dressed for an evening out on the town. Take a lot of photos and exclude over 90% of them. Remember cropping and editing can solve a few photo problems.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:14 pm:
I am not posting to this site, these will be ysed on other profiles and any nude or nude implying photos will be on tmblr or the kink site.
Problem with forward facing photos or photos with the face as the focus look awkward when the head is cut off.

hot4u_bb 65M
40 posts
10/30/2018 2:53 pm

Hi, I'd say take photos that YOU like, just be yourself and you'll find someone who likes you for being you. Also, I happened to read that you don't feel sexy... you are, trust me on that

PS, you're young too, I don't even look at 35 year olds.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:15 pm:
Of course im young to you...

But what is it like to 'feel sexy'?

sexyldy1000 57F  
1615 posts
10/30/2018 2:54 pm

As many have said, post what makes YOU feel good. Don’t give in to some pre-conceived notion of what you think others want to see. Photos and profiles are your marketing tools.

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:17 pm:
But you need to market to others. Otherwise why bother with the photos.
Most will just stay in my private album but the 5 or 6 that will be posted on other sites should be more what the majority will like to see not a small niche market. (Of course men prefer to look at under 25 yr olds, so theres that competition already) lol

NeedtToBeHere 63M  
23 posts
10/30/2018 2:55 pm

i prefer sexy dressed women. Cocktail dresses clothing designed to attract men like going out to dinner etc. These can be in places you enjoy going to parks, clubs, dinning places. Of course I do love to view a ladies torso who is nicely dressed

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:48 pm:
This will be an indoor shoot not an outdoor one.

SexyMDSenior65 64M  
19 posts
10/30/2018 2:55 pm

We men are all attracted to different things. So I would say, first be true to yourself. Second, what do you think are your best assets....legs, breasts, etc. Emphasize what makes you feel good. Third, I have yet to meet a male who doesn't love sexy lingerie.

If the person is sincere in wanting to meet, your profile should be all you need. But the pics always increase your visibility.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:22 pm:
Actually most guys don't like lingerie or sexy underthings, especially on this site. I polled that question a few times, and most just want to know if you are dtf and couldn't care less about the photos. Lol

Paulxx001 61M  
3042 posts
10/30/2018 3:08 pm

You wanna get artsy? Black and white.. Naked but covered up and your private parts subtly covered leisurely in dark shadows and fabric or your hands . It might take a p shop edit for the dark effect, but it's so sexy...

Words are like meat loaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:25 pm:
Even artsy is going to be a stretch for me, Considering its been a few years since I've mustered the energy to take photos. Lol

OMGxoxoxo 64M
29 posts
10/30/2018 3:14 pm

Well, I think you are very sexy! So, IMHO anything you chose to post would be sexy. And your photogs fave is pretty awesome. Love those lips!!

bellagorilla 60M
137 posts
10/30/2018 3:21 pm

Sit back have drink, a smoke, a walk in the woods what ever it is that makes you horny. You say you don't feel sex maybe horny is the next best thing? Certainly a lot of the guys here find you sexy.
Maybe that's the ticket you need the right guy there to make yo feel sexy. Come on Men of Loops try this lovely lady as she should be and make her feel sexy as hell.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 3:51 pm:
Horny and sexy are two different things. Feeling horny and taking pics will be nothing but explicit shots that i can't show most people. Lol

luvgluv19 70M
1787 posts
10/30/2018 3:24 pm

Out of doors is always nice and on a bed is another thought. May be even in an old barn once it is cool enough to kill off the spiders and snakes

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 7:43 pm:
That would be an interesting idea! And something I will keep in mind if the weather holds out here.

CreativeType5 36M
3231 posts
10/30/2018 4:35 pm

Photos designed to attract can be tricky. Personally, I like a bit of a tease with something left to the imagination. The one you posted in the comment is, without a doubt, sexy as hell. But it's the kind of photo that makes me hard - it's something I would masturbate to. In order to intrigue me enough to want to get to know a person more there needs to be mystery. You mentioned a corset, which makes me weak at the knees. Something like that makes me want to get to know the woman behind it. Maybe something in black-and-white, which adds a layer of mystique and intrigue.

But then again that may just be me. I know I can somewhat of a different breed of cat.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 4:45 pm:
I know from experience that most guys don't care for explicit photos, only to wank to.
Hence why I dont meet from the sites that I'm an exhibitionist on.

But when you dont have a beautiful face and really thin body what options do you have to look appealing?

Lets69allnite40 41M  
17 posts
10/30/2018 4:45 pm

Love any picture you post but would love to see if you in your strapons

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 4:47 pm:
I gave that up a long while ago due to lack of partners.

chiefconsultant6 68M  
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10/30/2018 4:50 pm


aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 4:54 pm:
I seriously didn't need examples.....

SelflessLover068 59M  
7970 posts
10/30/2018 5:03 pm

I like a woman in short shorts... Stockings are good... Thigh highs are always nice... Everyone has their own thing I'm sure... I don't think enough women wear hats these days... Maybe a cowgirl outfit with a hat from behind... I like a tempting tush too... Have a grrrrrrrrrreat day

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 5:06 pm:
I will be wearing my kink outfit, but on the fence about lingerie and stockings.

marriedcretin 48M
1044 posts
10/30/2018 6:12 pm

hmmm...less is more. Don't go explicit, try something a bit more tasteful, leave something to the imagination. Curves, shadows, corsets, stockings, necklace dangling between the boobs...suggest what is there, don't show it.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 6:39 pm:
Ya thats my thought also...

Desir4Fire 43M
1689 posts
10/30/2018 6:46 pm

That is extremely sexy and erotic Ms Flower!!

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 7:44 pm:
Thanks... but what other kind of photos would work that are less explicit

Chuckk48 62M
1272 posts
10/30/2018 6:49 pm

There are tons of "erotic" poses you can do without being pornographic.. Down blouse, up skirt leg shots partial breast shots, things like that. Trying to describe a pose is almost impossible. Just try to be creative. There's a saying in photography, "take a lot of pictures". For every ten you take you might get one you like.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 7:00 pm:
Being creative is the tough part because I have not felt much for the last 5 or 6 yrs... amd the photographer is used to hot young women.

aflower2c 44F  
12108 posts
10/30/2018 7:42 pm

The nervous part is that he's used to hot young women posing for him... they just have to stand there in a paper bag and people will find them attractive. Lol

What can a photographer do with someone older though??
Has anyone had pro photos done when they hit over 40? Or is that best reserved for the young women....

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

pocogato12 66F  
23501 posts
10/30/2018 8:49 pm

My first thing will be to pick colors that I love to have one and know I wear . The emoting/sexy comes from how I feel not what I think might be a sexy pose

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aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 9:22 pm:
The internal sexy feeling is what I'm struggling with finding because I haven't really felt it in a long time.

nowisthetime_4me 58M
49 posts
10/30/2018 8:52 pm

Age has nothing to do with being sexy. I think you have somehow been brainwashed into thinking that anyone over their thirties is not sexy or pretty. sounds to me like the guys you have been talking to or at a certain point , meeting, have lived in a cave most of their lives and probably have never heard or the "wheel"or that they still think its square. You cant possibly believe what these men say is true, can you??????. If you do....don't.

aflower2c replies on 10/30/2018 9:24 pm:
The problem with online dating...

dabrown33 44M
204 posts
10/30/2018 11:08 pm

The responses of "do what you want" are good, if you know what you want. If you don't know what you want, asking is good but of course, varied responses won't whittle it down much. Probably cause more variance.

What are you hoping to accomplish? If attracting guys is the goal, different types of photos will attract different types. Your profile says you're no longer meeting, so I'm not sure the purpose (I can only see the mini profile, so maybe there's more in there.)

I'm no pro photographer, I shoot nature and racing photos for my own fun and share with friends. But if I were your photographer, I'd of course want to know what YOU wanted. As a guy, I can come up with all sorts of different ideas- I'm an outdoorsy guy, so I like shots done outdoors. Outdoor shots are more about getting the right setting, to properly frame the subject. Indoor studio shots, the subject is basically the only thing and has to do their own "framing". It's about the pose, or the wardrobe. In either case, it's also possible to just wing it if the photographer is OK with that. I know i would be. You can suggest things, they can suggest things, it can be a collaboration.

Since you don't want to show your face (unfortunate but understandable) it does limit things. I'd be more inclined if you wore a mask (masquerade type or so) rather than cutting your head out of shots. The few photos I can see on your profile are all close in, no full body shots. So I can't tell what might work, or how to effectively highlight the best parts.

As for what to wear, I'm no fashion guide. Perhaps pick a theme, if you have things (or can get things) to match that theme.

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aflower2c replies on 10/31/2018 6:47 am:
I have learned my lesson with this site, so I only meet off of paid dating sites now.

And I post my pics on other sites not just this one.

proteus_2a 52M
6333 posts
10/31/2018 2:06 am

You seem to be going well, whatever you post my lady
- as long as it makes you feel good, like everyone says...

But still, I insist the texture of your skin is extremely alluring

Cheers , and have fun !


flowerkings2012 55M
3958 posts
10/31/2018 5:07 am

The things that work for me in a still photo, be it colour or monochrome, are:

pouty lips, nicely shaped long tongue that narrows at the tip

Nice cleavage/bra shots highlighting the shade and style

Same with arse.panties shots, that highlight the cheeks as well as rear shots that indicate a nicely fully or 'hung' mound

Dress shots should highlight curviness and the shape of hips

Obviously naked bum/tits shots work as well

Desir4Fire 43M
1689 posts
10/31/2018 9:45 am

Thanks... but what other kind of photos would work that are less explicit  


Classic cleavage shots are nice.
Snapping a shot of the ass from any angle.
Legs crossed with a sure indication of no panties

Do you have a hands free wireless camera?

Full body across the room nudes not taken in a mirror...
Sexy clothes in heels or only heels

aflower2c replies on 10/31/2018 10:40 am:
A photographer will be taking the photos so it wont be the mirror pics or the 3ft selfie shot.
But when you dont have the slender body type, as I'm rectangular in shape, its hard to find angles that work hence why i need the corset to give me a waist as I naturally do not have one that is defined.

Desir4Fire 43M
1689 posts
10/31/2018 9:47 am

    Quoting aflower2c:
    The nervous part is that he's used to hot young women posing for him... they just have to stand there in a paper bag and people will find them attractive. Lol

    What can a photographer do with someone older though??
    Has anyone had pro photos done when they hit over 40? Or is that best reserved for the young women....
You have to body for por shots!!!

Daytimer09B 50M
371 posts
10/31/2018 12:11 pm

"He liked this one obviously... but it never netted me any men. Lol"

Is that you? if so, WOW!!!

Here is a list of tasteful erotic photos that I think you should consider:
1) Think of a simple drape, it can be a sheet, satin or cotton, and then use it in ways that reveal a little, like side boob and butt crack. Shoot these from a behind three quarter view so that it will be flattering and stimulating. This way you will see your body and hair and maybe a small amount of cheek but no front on distinguishable face.
2) One of my all time favorite is a frontal shot of a woman on all fours where all that shows in the pictures are her boobs hanging down. You can even include a little chin and a smile if you wish. Again, keeps your privacy.
3) Profile shots are square so it really makes getting creative a little harder but a good shot can be cropped to where a guy has to study it a little to realize what he is looking at. Hey, if a guy will pass you by because he has to work a little bit, then he is not the kind of guy you are looking for... right?
4) Think of a sexy silhouette, or an image that has extremely hard lighting from one side and the other side is totally black. These make for dramatic images and lets the guys see your beautiful curves.
5) A simple close up of your smile can be very intriguing, use a high gloss lip stick and show those pearly whites.

Hope this helps.

aflower2c replies on 10/31/2018 12:28 pm:
Thats my pics. The onky other female pics i ever shared are memes or obviously very white women.

Daytimer09B 50M
371 posts
10/31/2018 1:09 pm

aflower2c replies on 10/31/2018 3:28 pm:
Thats my pics. The onky other female pics i ever shared are memes or obviously very white women.

You are that "Hot Chic" you asked me about in my blog. Believe in yourself, your sexiness will come through in any picture you take.

aflower2c replies on 10/31/2018 2:00 pm:
Believe me confidence isnt sexy, just beautiful is I have blogged about before.
But such is life.

cyclingfool 56M  
6278 posts
11/1/2018 10:30 am

I love the curvy form of a woman. Your ass bare or in thong. Your ass spread.. I am very anal attentive.. Your hips, belly and breasts would be lovely too. Sexy bra and cleavage pics always turn me on..
Ok, enough from me already..
Looking forward to what you choose to post..

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11/4/2018 10:56 am

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11/6/2018 11:30 am

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aflower2c replies on 11/6/2018 1:09 pm:
Thanks on the blog.

deepdang 34M
17 posts
11/8/2018 12:37 am

looking great loving pictures and content

aflower2c replies on 11/8/2018 12:59 pm:
Thanks on the pics.

Steelewall 47M  
31 posts
11/11/2018 12:54 am

If you have a good photographer he will help you to feel relaxed and the way you want in your pictures.

Try dressing up at home first in front of a mirror, try on a lot of different things.
Tell yourself how sexy you look in them. Believe what you are saying. This just might help you get to where you want to be for the photos.

Most of all listen to the people on here you are definitely sexy.

You may not think you are beautiful due to your flaws. But it is your flaws that make you beautiful.

aflower2c replies on 11/12/2018 10:01 am:
It feels different dressing in private vs veing in front of a camera. But i get what you are saying.

LaStrong1 45M
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11/12/2018 1:12 pm


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