Difficulty finding older women.  

INeedSomeFun_ 24M  
27 posts
7/21/2019 10:27 pm
Difficulty finding older women.


So I live in the Dallas, Texas area, and over the years since (I’m 24 now) I’ve always been attracted to older women. When I was I slept with a 68 year old. She was probably my second or third woman I slept with but I instantly fell in love with the idea of sex with older women. Women my age don’t do it any more for me.

I’ve been on AdultFriendFinder for a while and it’s been insane how difficult it is to find an older woman(40’s+) to start a fwb type of agreement. Maybe guys are getting the short end of the stick thanks to reputations on being shitty in bed.

fashionablegma 76F
6220 posts
7/21/2019 10:43 pm

Oh I have found they more than make up for it with their devilish handsome hot taut tight bodies,mmmmm


Juancogelon45 36M
6 posts
7/21/2019 10:58 pm

Que rico!


remorandy 25M
9 posts
7/21/2019 11:20 pm

I agree


blueska16 24M
2 posts
7/21/2019 11:25 pm

Agreed it takes some work.


Heathen_G 60M
7032 posts
7/22/2019 2:00 am

This is not a good site for young men to be on.

Women [age 40 plus] , on this site are just not interested in young males...nothing to do with being shitty in bed. In surveys, these women mostly say they don't want to be in bed with a male their sons age.....

So what you should do, is look to sites where older women are seeking young men. So, you need to investigate "Cougar sites". That can be helpful for you, and you 'll see a difference.

But if you do decide to stay here? Don't start out telling her you seek Fwb relationships. Those take too long to groom, and women may not want to have that kind of commitment.

Start out with first just having sex with the woman/women, and see where that goes. Maybe she'll want to see you again... or maybe she won't.


Notdonewithyet 56M
8 posts
7/22/2019 3:44 am

Its a numbers scenario, men outnumber women by at least 10 tp one on here.


2Saltie2 62F  
1484 posts
7/22/2019 4:36 am

Not all older women want younger men. I don't know where SOME young ones get the idea we do. The "I love older women " doesn't work on me. Not saying anything is wrong with it. Just SOME don't get it so keep at a woman or get nasty when told no.

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pocogato12 67F  
27725 posts
7/22/2019 9:28 am

Any young man who messages me with " I just love older women" gets immediately banned. I have a brain, I have manner,s I am full of devilment and fun and I should be respected. Maybe it is your approach

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FresnoWoman 48F
477 posts
7/22/2019 11:02 am

I suspect many young men think that the older woman will be so flattered that she'll want to hop into bed right away. Some women (of any age) are fine with that. But most women still want to be wooed and dated first.

Anyone who approaches me in a discourteous way is going to stop getting a response from me, and might get blocked also. Anyone who expects sex right away is also going to get the boot, although if he politely informs me of that, then I'll politely refuse.


s2ndegree 60M  
9160 posts
7/22/2019 6:06 pm

Maybe cut down on the MILF/cougar porn.
You speak of it as some right of passage
but as you're finding out is a right of passage.
The older women's right to pass you!

Using more than all the road!


Heathen_G 60M
7032 posts
7/23/2019 3:57 pm

    Quoting FresnoWoman:
    I suspect many young men think that the older woman will be so flattered that she'll want to hop into bed right away. Some women (of any age) are fine with that. But most women still want to be wooed and dated first.

    Anyone who approaches me in a discourteous way is going to stop getting a response from me, and might get blocked also. Anyone who expects sex right away is also going to get the boot, although if he politely informs me of that, then I'll politely refuse.
But most women still want to be wooed and dated first. .... So he just places his hands on her boobs or ass , then says "Woo".
A girl or woman knows what he wants... he shouldn't need to put on a performance for girls/women.

She either wants to have sex with him, or she doesn't. No need to spend your money on her either. Save your money.

And if he's not having sex with her, he is not dating her. .... So logically if she has sex with him, they are dating. No sex? Not a date.


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